Of all the tasks that we are required to do as parents, bringing up teenagers is by far the most difficult. It puts us to the test as parents. It takes us to the edge. We need all the help we can get. We struggle to get it right and it often leaves us and our teens feeling bewildered and confused.
So, what are the guidelines?
What are the pointers that make this period more bearable and even enjoyable? What are the tips that take the struggle out of it all? This book gives those hints.
Countless parents have sat in my office wanting to know how to act as parents or questioning whether they had done or were doing the right thing. I have had parents from all walks of life; some who were professionals or from the shop floor, from intact or blended families, from the city or the country, from various cultures, religions and countries all ask about how to manage their teenagers.
So, if you feel like you’re struggling, join the club – it’s the common experience of parents everywhere.
It doesn’t however, have to be this way. If parents are prepared to seek advice and learn to be parents, then their children will develop like at least 80 percent of adolescents do — relatively well-adjusted and capable individuals. Our kids do turn out okay. This book shows how to make sure that almost everyone can turn out okay.
It’s amazing really isn’t it to think that for almost all of us, we have had more training in learning to drive a car, use a computer or work our mobile phone than we have ever had in learning to be a parent! This book on raising adolescents is designed to assist your parenting.
For some strange reason, we seem to believe that because we have the biological means to bring a baby into this world, we automatically know how to be a parent and rear that baby through its various stages including adolescence and into young adulthood.
Wrong! Nothing can be further from the truth. We all need to learn skills.
Being a parent is a skill that is learned and typically learned on the job!
You will discover:
- Why adolescence is so “rocky”
- How to give your teenager healthy self-esteem
- How you help your teenager become responsible
- The four major ways in which adolescents are able to find their own identity
- The three key questions that adolescents need to answer for themselves
- How to help your adolescent find their own identity as a young adult
- How as parents you “let go”
- How to get more harmony back into your family
- How to maintain your own “sanity” as parents
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